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Dating I have taught each of my five children the difference between dating and courtship.
Dating is an unbiblical method crafted by the world with no boundaries or ethics with the following assumed rules and values: • Two people can mutually claim to be “boyfriend and girlfriend” if they are physically attracted to one another and (this is the litmus test) have a crush and claim each other for themselves in a special relationship.
• People should be taught to back off and not run to a person to whom they are attracted.
This is to give themselves enough time to pray, seek counsel, and hear from God about the other person before they fall hopelessly in love and reach the point where their heart has already made a choice to be with the other person–whether it be the will of God or not!
Part of discerning the will of God is judging whether or not the other person meets the biblical criteria and qualifications of being a good mate, being able to raise children, and being a family leader. Based on 1 Thessalonians we should be attracted to another person in three areas: physically, emotionally, and intellectually & spiritually (this includes personality).
• Youth groups should be taught that believers should not commit themselves to anyone God hasn’t clearly indicated will eventually be their spouse.This will enable the development of a deep friendship to help discern the will of God before beginning the process of committing to each other more formally.Both parties should back off, receive counsel, and pray to hear from God with other mature leaders and/or parents before allowing their hearts to be pulled towards each other romantically.Every pastor should have church guidelines that include boundaries for how their youth groups should be conducted.Every youth pastor should be trained on the difference between the worldly concept of dating and the biblical concept of courtship.
• Youth should be taught to have greater criteria beyond physically attraction.