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I know lots of guys my age (40s) who are hung up on the idea that they want a 20-something boyfriend.It's just not a reasonable demand..when I dig deeper I see that they are stunted emotionally in some way, and never had that 'perfect boyfriend' when THEY were in their 20's..can't move on from that until they get some young twink to fall in love with them. I meant to add that hooking up with younger guys is a whole 'nother story.It gave me a real complex and induced a crippling shyness in me. I'm still really shy so I never let it go to my head or take it seriously. The flip side of your story is that nobody wants you.Now I get hit on all the time by guys and girls in the 20s. A few times I've had girls take pictures of me on their phones while just walking down the street. Yes, there must be something wrong with everybody else, not you.[quote]Either you pony up with the cash, or settle for some schlub with a daddy complex. I dated a younger guy who definitely felt that way.If I had a nickel for every time I heard that one...[quote]I attract mostly guys in their mid 20s looking for someone a little older. I'm not delusional enough to think I look early-mid 20s, but I can pass for a good 10 years younger. Guys in their 20s and 30s see me as one of their contempories.
When I finally tell them the truth--that I'm old enough to be their father--they don't really care.
They don't want to date guys their own age because, in the words of a friend of mine, they don't want to just "sit home every night, watch tv and fuck". If you're smart you'll get over your crisis and look for guys your own age. I'm 35, when I was in my 20s I couldn't get a date at all.
Not even so much as a glance from a 1000 people in a room. It's so boring when people generalise about everyone else.
We worked together so I certainly wasn't giving him money--we made about the same.
Though there weren't that many years difference between us, it sort of bothered me.